Jennifer Lopez is catching some heat from her first husband, Ojani Noa, who is accusing her cheating after the superstar claims none of her exes were “capable” of loving her. As we previously shared, JLo recently appeared on Howard Stern‘s radio show. During the sit-down, Lopez made a bold claim about her exes.
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Jennifer Lopez’s Dating History, Engagements, And Marriages
As we previously recapped, Lopez was first reportedly engaged to her high school sweetheart David Cruz. Lopez is reported to have dated Cruz from 1984 to 1994. She was 15 and he was 16. Lopez was then married to Noa from 1997 to 1998.
JLo then dated Diddy from 1999 to 2001. From 2001 to 2003 she was married to Cris Judd. Then, she got engaged to Ben Affleck in 2002, but called off their wedding in 2004. Lopez moved on to Marc Anthony and was married to him from 2004 to 2014. The couple, who separated in 2011, share two children, twins Emme Maribel Muñiz Lopez and Maximilian David “Max” Muñiz Lopez, both 17.
Lopez then dated Casper Smart from 2011 to 2016. In 2017, she began dating Alex Rodriguez. They were engaged from 2019-2021. In 2021, Lopez then rekindled her romance with Affleck. They married in 2022, but divorced in 2024. Since the divorce, Lopez appears to still be single, with no romance rumors surfacing.
Jennifer Lopez Doesn’t Believe She’s Ever ‘Truly Been Loved’ After About 7 Engagements And 4 Marriages
In Lopez’s recent Stern interview, she revealed whether or not she believes she’s ever been truly been loved. The superstar multi-hyphenate took a deep sigh and rested her head on the fingertips. She then replied, “No.” Stern followed up, “And do you think you really have experienced loving someone?” She quickly replied, “Yes.” Stern followed up again asking what happens when she “can’t get that love back.”
Lopez offered, “What I learned: It’s not that I’m not lovable. It’s that they’re not capable.” Stern clarified, “They can’t love.” She explained, “They don’t have it in them. They need to appreciate the little person inside of them. They need to love them.”
Stern questioned, “They have little to give?” Lopez replied, “Yeah. And they’ve gave me what they had! They gave me all of it. Every time. All the rings, all the things I could ever want. They tried to give me the houses, the rings, the marriage, all of it. But…”
Stern interjected, “They didn’t love you?” She replied, “They didn’t.” Stern added, “And didn’t know you.” Lopez admitted, “And I didn’t love myself.” Stern acknowledged, “Right. It’s tough. This is some journey, right?” Lopez agreed, “It is.” Stern continued, “You know, I was thinking about your music. Most of your songs are about love. They really are.” Before grinning, Lopez quipped, “They’re all about love.”
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Jennifer Lopez’s First Husband Ojani Noa Accuses Her Of Cheating After She Claimed None Of Her Exes Were ‘Capable’ Of Loving Her
While reacting to Jennifer Lopez’s bold claim, Ojani Noa slammed his ex-wife on Instagram. On Friday (October 17), he wrote a lengthy post, accusing her of cheating and him truly loving her. He said:
“This is in reference about the recent Interview on The ‘Howard Stern’ show, where my ex-wife, ‘Jennifer Lopez,’ a.k.a (JLO), said that ‘she[’s] never been loved or capable.’ Hahaha.. Let me just say…
Stop putting us down. Stop putting me down with your victim card. The problem is not us. Not me. The problem it’s you. You[‘re] the one who couldn’t keep it in your pants. You have been ‘loved’ [a] few times. You[‘ve] been married 4 times. And have had countless relationships in between.
You have had good relationships.. Me for example. I was in loved with you. I even move[d] out of state — leaving my job, my family, and friends behind to support you, to love you, to protect you, and care for you. I’m an amazing, loving person, great human being, honest, faithful to you, never lied, never miss behave[d], never CHEATED on you. I was to[o] GOOD for you.. I’m too good of a m[a]n for you…
But you. You chose FAME and FORTUNE moving apart of our relationship. You decided to lie, to CHEAT on me. And even though I stayed, I even tried to keep the marriage going and alive. You even begged me to stay because at the time you didn’t want bad press caring more about you, about your career instead of saving the marriage and I stayed.
But you, you when for the fast line of your career/stardom not caring about me. You wanted to continue cheating and lying. I couldn’t stay anymore and deal with the constant lying, That’s why I left you, that’s why I divorced you. Tell the truth for once. Let people know that you are the problem. You should be embarrassed, ashamed of your self.”
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